Pleasure Without Sex.

For many couples, great sex without intercourse means experimenting, which can feel strange. But novelty is key to sexual zing. Doing things differently stimulates the brain to release dopamine, and dopamine heightens erotic intensity. In other words, if you adopt some new non-intercourse moves, lovemaking without intercourse can feel more pleasurable than ever.

 Here are some tips to not having an intercourse but feeling the pleasure of lovemaking.

1. SAY “I’M NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU.” OUT LOUD.

Say this when you’re making out and things are just starting to heat up. Grab their face, look them right in the eye and tell them that you’re not going to have sex with them. Then don’t slow down at all.

What’s implied here is that “everything else” is on the table. Like some wondrous Dionysian buffet.

Related: Tips To Give Her The Pleasure She Deserves.

2. USE YOUR HANDS

It’s amazing what you can do when you commit to just using your hands. Because hand and finger work are generally considered foreplay, we don’t often explore the vast range of what our hands alone can do. Namely, we can get a lot more specific about placement, pressure and speed than we can with intercourse or oral.

It makes sense, right? We wouldn’t use our junk to open a tricky lock or use our mouths to play Jenga. When a task requires subtlety, grace and attention, we use our hands.

Related: Spotting Her Gspot.

3. A TOUCH OF FANTASY

You don’t necessarily even have to dress up as anything  (I mean, I’m not going to stop you…), but a little hint of fantasy can imbue non-penetrative sex with all the intensity of “going all the way.”

For example, try planning a “professional” massage complete with oils, hot towels, new age music, etc. You can even make the guy or girl wait in the living room with a magazine until the bedroom is ready. Once you’ve sufficiently oiled them up, worked out all the kinks and ushered your partner into a state of deep relaxation — surprise them with a “happy ending” (yes, this works on women, too). The fact that they’re already super-stimulated combined with just a taste of the taboo is likely to send them right over the edge.

4. GOING DOWN

The first step to giving good head is to get over the idea that you’re doing somebody a favor. If you don’t really want to do it, it’s going be a bummer for everybody. The second hump to get over, as with using your hands, is the idea that oral is something you do just to get your partner ready for intercourse.

Once you get down with oral sex for its own sake, it can be as emotional and intense for both parties as “actual” sex.

Related: Giving A Blowjob The right Way.

5. DO IT IN PUBLIC

It’s way easier to pull off non-penetrative sex in public than it is to secretly have full-on intercourse. In a car, a movie theater, under a thoroughly clothed table — you’re not likely to get caught if you can keep the noise to a minimum. Let’s face it. You’ve had some forgettable intercourse in your life, but you’ll always remember that time you received oral on a Ferris wheel.

6. THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE

Sex that’s unexpected, but welcome, is always hot sex, whether intercourse is involved or not. Go down on her while she’s watching “House.” Put your hand down his pants while he’s making coffee in the morning. You’ll probably find that these surprise encounters will make your average end-of-the-night, in-a-bed sex that much hotter, too.

Related: Sex Tips On Trying New Things.

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Akpororo Apologize To Kate Henshaw Over Misunderstanding.

Yesterday Kate Henshaw discovered that Akpororo had illegally used her name to promote his show, He potrayed her image on the banner for his show as the host of the event.

She however slammed him with a lawsuit to remove her name from the banner in the next 48hours or face the full wrath of the law, He has now  come out to apologise saying he had no intent to infuriate her

He has since then removed her name and photo from any publicity material for the event.

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Using Honey to Get A Perfect Skin.

Honey's often thought of as a healthier sweetener, but you might be surprised to learn that this ingredient has tons of skin and hair benefits, too. Made by the alchemy of bees collecting nectar, pollen, and resins from flowers, honey can help moisturize, fight aging, and fight bacteria. Plus, it’s loaded with nutrients, antioxidants, and healing compounds. Next time you’re browsing the grocery store shelves, look for raw honey, which hasn't been heat-treated or pasteurized; it contains more active phytonutrient antioxidants and enzymes for enhanced benefits. Here are a few ways to put the ingredient to use (sometimes with the help of some other natural ingredients).

1. Moisturizing Mask
Honey is a natural humectant, meaning it draws moisture from the air into the skin and ensures it's retained it in the layers where it’s needed most for penetrating, long-lasting hydration.


2. Pore Cleanser
The enzymes in raw honey clarify skin and keep pores clear and clean. Plus, the antibacterial properties of honey and jojoba or coconut oil also prevent bacterial buildup that can lead to skin imbalances and breakouts.

Try it: Stir one tablespoon raw honey with two tablespoons jojoba oil or coconut oil until the mixture is spreadable consistency. Apply to clean, dry skin, and massage gently in a circular motion, avoiding your eye area. Rinse with tepid water.


3. Gentle Exfoliator
Honey is loaded with antioxidants, enzymes, and other nutrients that nourish, cleanse, and hydrate skin. Baking soda, meanwhile, is a gentle natural exfoliator that removes dead skin cells, allowing new cells to emerge for a radiant complexion.

Try it: Mix two tablespoons honey with one tablespoon baking soda. Splash your skin with water, then gently rub the concoction on your face or body in a circular motion. Rinse well.

4. Scar Fader
Honey is said to lighten skin, and its anti-inflammatory and antibacterial compounds help to decrease the appearances of scars and increase healing and tissue regeneration. The hydrating properties of honey and coconut oil or olive oil will also help revive skin cells, while regular, gentle massaging will increase circulation to aid skin recovery and cell turnover.

Try it: Mix one teaspoon raw honey with one teaspoon coconut oil or olive oil. Apply to the affected area, and massage with the tips of your fingers in a circular motion for one to two minutes. Place a hot washcloth over your skin, and let sit until cool. Repeat daily.


5. Acne Treatment
Honey contains antibacterial and antifungal properties that thwart bacteria that can lead to breakouts. Its anti-inflammatory properties will calm redness and irritation.

Try it: Apply a dab of raw honey to affected areas, and sit for 10-15 minutes. Rinse with tepid water.


6. Bath Soak
Honey's not just hydrating; its antioxidants will repair skin and protect it against oxidative and environmental damage.

Try it: Mix two heaping tablespoons raw honey with one cup hot water until dissolved. Add to a tub of warm water, and soak.

7. Cuticle Moisturizer
Raw honey is loaded with nutrients and enzymes to nourish and heal skin, and it's a natural humectant, meaning it draws moisture into the skin. Coconut oil conditions and protects, while the acetic acid in apple cider vinegar softens hard skin and balances pH for healthy growth.

Try it: Mix one teaspoon honey with one teaspoon apple cider vinegar and one teaspoon coconut oil. Rub over each cuticle, and let sit five to 10 minutes, then rinse.


8. Hair Conditioner
The enzymes and nutrients in raw honey give dull hair shine without weighing it down. Coconut oil penetrates the hair shaft to condition and smooth the cuticle and give your strands the luster you crave.

Try it: Mix one tablespoon raw honey with two tablespoons coconut oil. Apply thoroughly to the bottom two-thirds of damp hair, starting at the ends and working up. Let sit for 20 minutes, and rinse well.

9. Shampoo Booster
The humectant properties of honey help regulate and retain moisture in hair, plus honey is said to strengthen hair follicles for healthy growth.

Try it: Mix one teaspoon honey with a dime-sized amount of your favorite shampoo. Wash and lather as normal, and rinse well.


10. Hair Highlighter
The enzyme glucose oxidase in honey slowly releases hydrogen peroxide, an ingredient known to lighten hair color.

Try it: Mix three tablespoons honey with two tablespoon water. Apply to clean, damp hair, and let sit for an hour. Rinse well. Apply weekly for best results.

11. Sunburn Treatment
Honey restores hydration to the deepest layers of sun-exposed skin—and both honey and aloe vera contain powerful anti-inflammatories to calm burned skin and aid recovery.

Try it: Mix one part raw honey with two parts pure aloe vera gel. Apply to sunburned skin.

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This Muse.

If I come on I become an inspiration, I become a muse and a poet, a ballad and an elegy, a song and a story, I become ghost and flesh, shadow and stones. This became the first thought, the first appearance when he came closer to his love, the woman he had seen seven years before now. This warmth moved in their veins, the cold air covered their skin, it began; what she said she will never do, she did. Then the light tripped off, was it the moment or even the electricity could feel the vibration they caused?

What happens when irrevocably hard meets with uncompromisingly wet? There is an irresistible motion with an unexpected silence killed with a racing heart and divine music. What happens when friction subdued is obeisance by wiles of an overarching and overwhelming lubrication, and the heat, that heat, that warm throb that hammers its way into frenzy; the heat, the tightness that grips like the incisors of the lioness when she grips her prey.

A deeper connection, another feeling from another world, a desired oneness and loss of oneself, a feeling of being owned and not being alone, a feeling of I have to stop thinking of any other thing asides what I’m doing. Any other thing would be a distraction, I should just focus. A high pitched volume is the answer. After a while; he spoke “you complete me”. On her part she saw things differently “I’m not complete” she replied.


 There wasn’t anything else he could say that won’t ruin the moment but he spoke anyway, “then I would be your completion, your summary and conclusion”. She asked the question that brought the confusion “how do I complete the comprehension?” he went on and said, “that part of the wave that beats the shore with froths of white, and recedes into itself taking with it pieces of the shore and always returning forever.” She was still curious “but does the wave make the sea? Or does the sea make the wave?” he wanted to continue; there is no doubt he knew he loved this woman but this moment was precious “is the glass half empty or half full? Is the bottle half empty or half full?” as crucial as this question seemed, she had an answer “it’s half empty”. This made him sit “the difference lies where you see it, half empty or half full the bottle remains incomplete” “what’s the difference? You or me?” she asked. “We” he replied. She turned her back against him and asked “what exactly is the we? You on top or me on top?” he really had an answer for everything, “we are a sum total of differences that exists between us” she wasn’t clear “can we bring out similarities?” immediately he turned and leaned on her, whispering in her ears what he felt she needed to hear “top or bottom is only perspective, similarities confound eventually I prefer differences, let’s bring out differences because when our differences are alike, they become similarities, in the end similarities confound the mind”.

 She wasn’t thoughtless, her mind was filled with questions; “is love processed in the mind or does character process love?” he didn’t want to be away for too long, he felt pain, he answered without a longer hesitation “true love is processed by character” she turned to him, “character can be painted, true love exists but it’s rare.” “Character can’t be painted, character is like smoke, it cannot be hidden, and it will always rise through.” She asked this time placing her head on his warm chest “will the painting faint?”  He gave her something to fill her up, he gave her the thought she needed to help her stop pondering over should I submit or should I not? “Character is like a rock formation, formed from thousands of years of weathering, stands obvious to the world. Painting will faint but character is inscribed and engraved when people gaze at the rock they don’t see the work of time on it, just hats before their eyes. And that is character” she made her decision and left him with a shallow blow “then I’d love” he held her tight, gave her a kiss and restored the moment “then I’d lead in love”.

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